Marilyn's On
the Run!

Racing to Save Lives...
In Memory of Pat

Let's support Marilyn in her marathon to raise money for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society.

Photos of Pat
Egyptian Harvest Fall Party
November 7, 1998
Faces of Pat
December 5, 2001
Purple Crush for Pat
September, 2003
February Birthdays,
February 4, 2004

Pat composed a few Purple Crush T-shirt parodies:
10/22/2003
Got My Tee Shirt On Again
by Patty Hanes and
The Fruit of the
Loom Singers, 
aka Pat Haas

We wore our shirts
for Pat:

Once more into the
shirts - for Pat!

Do you have a
memory to share?
Email to Marla DeSoto


Memories of Pat Haas

Our dear friend and colleague,
he lives forever in our hearts and minds.

Pat's friends may honor his memory by contributing to the
Pat Haas Scholarship at GCC


1/24/2006
GCC colleagues --

It is my sad duty to report that long-time GCC friend English Dept. faculty member Pat Haas lost his long battle with cancer Monday night.

Viewing will be at Heritage Funeral Home, 6830 W. Thunderbird, from 5 to 8 p.m. Wednesday with a prayer service at 7.

Mass will be celebrated at 1 p.m. Friday at  Saints Simon and Jude Cathedral, 6351 North 27th Avenue (Between Bethany Home Road and Glendale Ave on 27th Avenue)  

Larry Bohlender



Colleagues,

Faculty Senate sends deepest sympathy to Pat's family and all who knew, respected, and loved him.  Pat served students and colleagues long and well; he will be missed, but remain in our hearts and minds for years to come.  May he rest in peace.

Sincerely,
Carmela

 

 


Kathleen Furlong wrote:

To all,

I am so sad, shocked, as I'm sure we all are.  This is a certainly a great loss. 

I saved every one of the Valentine Day cards he gave me and I'm so glad I did. I'll always remember the first time I got one, my very first year at GCC--how funny he was when he snuck into my office and put it on my desk (while I was distracted by something I was doing at the computer).   I'm so very grateful that I got to know this wonderful, fun-loving, kind, witty man and I'm sure he will be part of my GCC memories forever.  I'm just sorry that his time with us was shortened.

Is there anything we can do for his family--wife, children?  his close friends?  Ruth, Larry--what do you need?  Our thoughts are with you, too, and everyone else who loved Pat.

Nothing I can say can express how very sad this is, but sharing it with the people who knew Pat, certainly better than I, helps a little.


Casey

What heart-breaking news! I, too, am shocked and very sad. One can never be prepared for such news. I remember shortly after my father passed away, and I was feeling such sadness and grief, Pat came up to me and gave me a hug--a long, tight, sincere hug. I have carried that gesture of kindness around with me ever since.  For Pat, my heart is filled with love and gratitude, and I will forever appreciate the impact he had on my life and in my world.
 
Thank you.

Renee


Pat Haas was a very kind and thoughtful man - my deepest sympathies to his family and all his good friends in the English department.

Regis Della-Calce


Hi Dawn and Larry,
It's a truly sad day.  Losing Pat leaves such a void.  Things just won't be the same and we will all miss him much more than we could ever say.
I know you are having a very hard time today but remember how he used to be and that now he won't be hurting.  Only now our hearts are hurting for him and his family.

Love and hugs,

Carol Rodrigues


From: Fernando Camou

He will certainly be missed by all of us who met him.  Both my daughters got to enjoy having him as a caring and wonderful instructor.  Thank you for the information.
fc


Larry:

I am home not feeling well and will be out of the office for awhile - FMLA. I probably will not be able to attend this evening and would appreciate it so very much if you would pass on to Marilyn, Nicole, Pat and Lizzie my very deepest sorrow and sympathy for them at this time.

I will always remember Pat as the person he always was - honest, true, loving and one of the best friends I had here at GCC.  I will always remember the many chats we had about our families and always the kids.  He was so very proud of all of them - we had some wonderful laughs over the years. God has now released him from his pain and worn out body and taken him above to  watch over the rest of us.  The world is definitely a much better place because of him, his joy of teaching and the way he made all of feel - his friends. He appreciated every one of them as we did him!!!

My love to Marilyn, Nicole, Pat and Lizzie always
Leslie Prehoda


Although we had been colleagues for some time, I really got to know Pat when I was department chair.  It seemed I was often in the office at the computer so we became email buddies.  Any good jokes (and some questionable ones) I forwarded immediately to Pat.  Pat wrote me about campus politics, campus gossip, his colleagues, his kids, and later on how he was feeling that day.  But our favorite topics might have been the Pittsburgh Steelers and the Detroit Tigers.

I'm not sure I ever asked how he came to be a Steelers fan.  (Becoming a Tiger fan was a condition of my marriage.)  But we shared an unshakable, irrational, exuberant fandom.  So if you have any belief in heavenly intervention, put your money on the Steelers in the Super Bowl.

Pat, you were a friend, a colleague, and a soldier.  Words are no salve for the wound your family feels.  Still grief doesn't last for ever, but love does.

Betty Hufford


I'll always remember Pat's smiling face popping around the corner of my office saying, "Mornin' Miz Dinchak!"   He was cheerful and always positive, a much appreciated characteristic around here.  When Pat became ill, we always thought he'd come back to teach.  I remember he was excited about teaching online and was a guest reviewer one semester in my ENG101 classes.  Pat loved teaching, and I know he's teaching someone now, helping someone find the answers and feel better about himself.  Pat was an encourager and a fighter, always believing we could make it better. 

When Pat was ill, we emailed and stayed in touch.  One time I was upset about some things going on at school, and I developed a case of hives on my arms.  Dear Pat was so concerned and asked what I was doing for it.  He shared what had worked for him when he had hives, and was so supportive.  I was rereading his emails lately and this is what he wrote to me:

I hope you can learn to let these things slide and not put your health in jeopardy over them, Marla.  Well, you take care and thanks for your kind words.  These type of e-mails from my colleagues mean so much to me.  I can never get enough of them

Pat

Pat was a genuinely kind and caring person, a true gentleman.  I'll miss him.

Marla


Pat always remembered to give out Valentines, the kind little kids bring to school.  I used to tell Pat--and my husband!--that often Pat's was the only Valentine I received.  Pat was thoughtful and courageous; he had friends as different (on the surface, at least) as Ruthie and Jim Reed; he rode a motorcycle and was an official member of the Big Nate Fan Club (I kid you not).  Pat was proud of his family and of our profession.   I didn't know until a few minutes ago that he was all this and a Steelers fan too, but I sure do like Betty's idea!   I'll miss Pat, but I hope I never forget his example of courage and faith.
Mary


In Memory of Pat:

And if I go,
While you're still here…
Know that I live on, vibrating to a different measure
-behind a thin veil you cannot see through.  

You will not see me,
So you must have faith.
I wait for the time when we can soar together again,
both aware of each other.

Until then, live your life to its fullest.
And when you need me,
Just whisper my name in your heart,

…I will be there.

Olivia Templeton


Dear Friends,

It's been a couple of years since I've heard Pat's Harley, rumbling a few feet away from mine.  You get to know a person pretty well out there on the highway.  Lots of coffee and Krispee Kremes--and great conversation.   Hundreds and hundreds of miles, sometimes--during winter-- our teeth chattered so much we could hardly say goodbye.  In the summer, we rose way before the sun, taking the back road to Prescott, only to later endure the heat as we came down I-17 in the middle of the day.  We did this for years.  Our last ride was only a mile or two--a greasy spoon south of Bell.  Pat complained a little that day--there's a first time for everything-- not about his health, but how he'd sure like to ride a bunch more.  I'm not real certain what lies beyond GCC, our retirement package, or my next display of highway heroism.  But if there's a Harley shop out there, I'll know where to find my friend--eyeing a 100 cube Fatboy or a Classic with all the goodies. 

Until then, I'll miss you my friend. 

Jim Reed


Jim,
How fortunate you are to have spent such special times with Pat.  Heck, we were all fortunate, just to have the privilege to know and love him. 
Until we meet again, Pat!
Carolyn Percifull


It's difficult for me to remember one specific memory or experience, since Pat was ALWAYS Pat.  Kind, gentle, funny, giving - caring father, husband, teacher, friend.  He taught me/us much about how to live for life and how to fight for life.  His was certainly a life well lived, and I know my live is, was and will be better for having known him.  Thanks, Pat.
    - "Davey"


 Although Pat was absent physically from the department over the last three years, he continued to volunteer in the Writing Center -- I'd send him one or two of the electronically-submitted essays each week, and he'd send them back to the students. His comments were always friendly, gentle, and focused on just what exactly was wrong with the students' writing, and how it could be improved (in fact, at least two of the students whom he helped asked specifically for him the next time they submitted an essay).
    A bonus was that we'd chat via email -- and, being Pat, he never said much about his own situation; he'd ask about my family, about comic books he'd heard about in the news, about all kinds of other general things. Once in a while, he'd mention offhandedly that he wouldn't be able to look at any submissions for a week or two, because he was starting chemo again, or going into the hospital, but otherwise it never came up. Then, he'd thank me for "letting" him work on the essays and give the students advice.
    I know we've lost a good person, but what really gets me is that we've lost a great teacher. He'll be impossible to replace.

     Phil


I will never forget Pat Haas.  Whenever I came into the English Dept to see my mom while I was at GCC and Pat was around, he would come in and say, "Hi Honey!".  At first, I didn't know why but I later learned that he was greeting me just like my mom would.  Pat always had a smile on his face and was always so cheerful.  Those smiles were contagious.  He seemed to just brighten up the room when he came in.  And he could always make me smile even if I was having a rough day at school.  His memory will live on forever.

Angela Bertram


I've been going over and over in my mind what I didn't get a chance to say to Pat and what to say now. 

Almost from the start, Pat was a friend, but we became even closer over the years.  We talked about our children—he was so proud of Patrick, Nicole, and Elizabeth—and how things had changed since we were kids.   He was always asking about my family:  How was "Honey?" (his nickname for Angela)  How does Michelle like teaching?  How does Andrea manage with three boys?  When the grandkids starting arriving, he'd ask about each one and I'd send pictures so he could see how fast they were growing.  He often said he was looking forward to being a grandfather but was a bit nervous about holding the babies.  When my nephew chose to play football at NAU, Pat became Jason's #1 fan and sent the newspaper clippings to me every week.  I never had the heart to tell him I had a subscription to the AZ Republic.  One of my dresser drawers is stuffed with clippings and his little notes about the games.  I remember the year Pat and I turned 50.  Since I was the "oldest" my office got trashed first.  Boy did he get the surprise of his life on February 15, 1998 when he opened his office door to find the room filled with balloons and confetti.   It took us hours to blow up those balloons and hours to clean his office.  Each year as my birthday got closer, Pat would remind me—on a weekly if not daily basis—that he was younger than me, if only for a couple months.  Now he will always be younger!

During Pat's illness, some of my most special memories were the times we shared our faith in God.  Even though Pat and I were not brought up in the same religion, I do believe his faith and trust in God helped him, and everyone who loved him, get through the tough times.  His strong faith helped mine to become stronger.  I am going to miss that the most.

Pat—I'll see you again one day and then you can "catch up" to me. 

Miss you already.  Dawn


     I still remember the time I was outside Pat’s office, waiting to ask about a student and hearing his voice as he talked into his phone, “I miss seeing you.” I was worried for just a minute until I heard his voice say, “Mrs. Haas, I will be home in a few minutes.” He always had something good to say about his wife and his kids. I don’t know if anyone could have been prouder of all of them. When his first one went off to college, he wondered whether or not Bubba would come back home or if he would settle somewhere else. He taught extra classes so that he could put them through college, and he was proud of every accomplishment of every child. He always had an update on them, but he never forgot to ask me how my son was doing and follow his progress
     I also remember Pat as a dedicated teacher who spent hours helping his students. He once said, “There is merit in having students pick themselves up by their bootstraps and move on,” and he was the one who encouraged them to work hard and succeed. Pat himself was never afraid of hard work. He’d spend weeks formatting tests for his students. He, Jan, and I spent two days holistically scoring some three hundred or so papers, but he never complained—not once. We will all miss hearing him speak about his family and his student, but we will always be grateful that we were honored to know such a positive person.  Pat, you are loved by all of us.
Joy Wingersky


Remembering Pat...

Pat Haas was indeed a special person--courageous, honest, witty, friendly, caring, fun-loving, athletic. I remember meeting him for the first time when he interrupted his jogging next to Glen Lakes Golf Course to talk to my golfing companions. Most of us will more vividly recall the tired-looking, gaunt Pat of recent years, but I can still picture him coming back to the LA building full of energy after a workout or clad in biker leather, eager to ride.

I also remember how much he loved puns, and I would forward the best, or perhaps worst, ones I received to him. He loved to play with language and said that the jokes and puns we sent to him kept his mind busy even though his body couldn't do the things it once had.

I remember the valentines and how they would suddenly and mysteriously appear. I remember how he called his female "cooleagues" Ms. or Mrs... with a little smile.

I remember how Pat reached out to me when my mother and son died within a few months of each other. He had a special ability to communicate how much he genuinely cared about others.

Most of all, we will all remember how valiantly Pat fought the insidious disease that eventually conquered his body but never his spirit. His long battle is over, but that brave spirit lives on.
 
Char Howey


I did not have the pleasure of sharing in Pat's sharp wit and gentle nature on a regular basis, but it is Pat who first planted the seed some twelve years ago that I should expand my career to include adjunct ESL.  I met Pat in the gym as we both sweat it out on the bicycles.  Recently divorced and feeling at odds with the world, Pat was a sane and kind soul listening and gently convincing me that my life was not over.  Some time later, with Jane Camp's help, I nurtured that seed and started to teach at GCC.   At that time, I only knew Pat as "that guy at the gym," until he came charging out of his office one day, claiming to Jane that I was his friend.  And what a friend he was.

A few years ago, I was hiking with some friends up to Yarnell and Pat whizzed by with his friends on his Harley.  I didn't realize he was in the group until we all landed in the same restaurant at the top of the hill.  With his leather jacket and helmet, he tore off with his buddies, free and happy, loving life. 

That is how I will remember Pat. 
Mary Havlik


When I was in the Innovation Center, Pat would drop by my office between  classes, and we'd chat about riding and long trips and motorcycles.  He was very interested in my coast-to-coast trip, and then later in my trip to Alaska.  He had great suggestions and a kind of wistful  I-wish-I-could-do-that manner that all riders have when they talk to other riders about road trips (although he had several long trips under his own belt).  I never rode with him, but I'm sure he was a fun and kind member of any group.  I know that where he is (HOG Heaven perhaps) there are lots of  riders as well as sunny skies, cool days, dry roads, and gentle curves ahead.

Karen


I am at a loss for words.
I am at a loss for Pat.
God rest your soul, my friend.
God rest your soul.

Jim Sanders


There are so many good memories of Pat. He was one of the first in the English department to become a friend when we discovered we'd both lived in north Texas. I enjoyed his wit, his warmth, and his genuine interest in sharing thoughts about family, work, the state of the world- he could talk about anything. When he and Ruth conversed, it was "Whoa! Hold on!" The two were so entertaining.  Pat also played a role in my surviving my medical crisis. I don't think I would have made it through if I hadn't been fit. He encouraged me to sign up for the Fitness Center many years back. Later, when I left the hospital and had to go for what seemed endless lab tests and follow up doctor visits, Pat was an example then, too. I would remind myself that what I was going through was nothing compared to his many treatments and doctor visits. He was tough and I could be, too.  I don't think any of us can fully express how lucky we've been to have been one of Pat's friends.
Mary Jane Onnen


I'm one of your adjuncts and I never had the pleasure or honor of meeting Pat.  But reading all your emails makes me think of a card a friend once sent me:  "To teach is to touch a life forever."  Surely this applies to Pat.  From everything each of you has written, this is the consistent memory -- what teaching meant to him.  And I would bet there are lots of students out there who will never forget him.  He can't be "gone" while those memories (and the invaluable "lessons") linger.

Please share my thoughts with his family.

Kevan


So many of you have written such affectionate and eloquent tributes to Pat that I scarcely know what else to say, but I did just want to add one thing: my friend “Chef Pat” in the kitchen -- cooking Thanksgiving dinner, and inviting my husband John, my mother and me every single year starting with my fledgling OYO in 1991-1992. My mother did not always come, but John and I did.

Marilyn and I both subscribe to Bon Appetit and every November issue there is some new twist on the turkey recipe -- usually requiring that ¼ teaspoon of a fresh herb which the magazine assures us can be easily found at our local Swahili grocery store. Ha! Anyway, we finally got lucky in 1994; we found the perfect recipe and never looked back. For almost fifteen years, our Thanksgiving and Easter dinners together with Household Haas truly captured the spirit of both seasons as we were thankful for the blessing of such wonderful friends each autumn and pleased to celebrate the promise of new life with them every spring. And now? Whoever sits in the chair at the head of the table on Freeway Lane, it will always really be Pat’s -- generous, welcoming and loving, who opened both his home and his heart to us.

Ruthie


I will always remember Pat poking his head in my office and saying, "HI, Hane."  I too have kept his valentine cards and will always cherish them.  Shortly after he became ill, I bought a Stanford cap for him. In the note I sent with the hat, I told him that the "S" stood for "Superman" and that he was a "superman" too.  In his thank you note, he wrote back that the "S" stood for "survivor" as well. He did survive for a long time, but just not long enough for the rest of us.  We selfishly didn't want him to go, but that decision was not up to us.  I will miss him tremendously, but he will always be in my heart.
Jane


As a relatively new adjunct, I did not know Pat Haas – but all of your memories of him read like lessons on how to live a giving, committed and caring life. I have appreciated and learned from them.

Loyd Brazzel


I, too, did not know Pat, but, like Loyd, I wish I had.  Your loving tributes remind me that a life well lived, a life that reflects God’s love, is our ultimate goal.  Thanks for the reminder.

Jody Woerner 


Thank you—and all—for sharing the memories with me. When I was very new at GCC, Betty asked me to take on an 071 in mid-semester that Pat had to let go. Pat mentored me into that course via class visitation, discussions of how he did it, lots of wonderfully effective handouts and ideas for using textbook material. Much more than that, I got to experience his special rapport and graciousness with his students. He was, in short, not only a great help but an inspiring model.
So, you see, I miss Pat, too. All of my subsequent 071 classes, and some of the best I can manage as to my presentation-of-self are "his." I wish Pat and his loved ones great peace.
Mike

Mike Woal


English Faculty, I did not know Pat Haas, as I am a relatively new to the English Department at Glendale, but if he was the kind of person who really liked bikers and bicyclists then he was the kind of guy I would like to know. It sounds like he was the kind of person who gave everyone a chance---a perfect community college teacher, and from what I can tell he was lucky to have colleagues and friends who appreciated him so much.

My deepest condolences.---Mimi Schlein


Pat and I both transferred in from PC, a year apart.  Later, we found that we had both been warned by our colleagues at PC that the GCC faculty was "different" (or less polite appelations).   Well, I guess we both were too, since this became our home.

Pat and I served many years on the Faculty Senate together during its more obstreporous (sp?) days, and he was always a gentleman at those contentious meetings.  I respected his opinions and the way he phrased them.  He was always thinking of the students, something we can forget to do in the heat of discussion.

Pat knew that I had been on chemotherapy while I was at PC, and when he had to go through treatments, we emailed our support for each other back and forth.  He went through so much more than I did that I was in awe of him, and yet he underplayed his courage tremendously.

Pat, I will miss your sense of humor and kindness especially.  Have a good journey Home.
Linda


Pat and I shared a few commonalties beyond our interest in good food: working class backgrounds, Vietnam angst (one of my twin brother's was there about the same time as Pat), speaking for the underdog, an avid interest in faculty governance, and a genuine concern for  people, especially students.

Pat often called me a Brooklyn "goombah," a corruption of comadre, which defines a relationship closer than friend, yet not a relative.  As evidenced by the number of people who came to pay their respects Wednesday evening, Pat had many friends beyond faculty at GCC and MCCD, and he would have been delighted to see so many of them, including GCC's long-time former Admin. Dean Joyce Elsner, an administrator with whom he often disagreed but the one who hired him to teach at RIO years ago.

Pat was a vocal champion of a healthy life; despite the fact that he devoured as much leftover Italian food as I would share, healthful food and exercise were very important to him.  He often lectured me on ways to help Artie and me stay healthy; indeed, it's a sad irony that he would be overcome by a relentless cancer. 

Recalling that Pat was able to join us for the employee picnic last May is a bittersweet memory...looking forward to his transplant, he had hopes he would one day rejoin his GCC colleagues. Yet, his abiding faith in God allowed him to accept one of the prime tenets of  our faith: Thy will be done; now, he flies with angels and we, his family, friends, and colleagues, are left with heavy hearts....

Carmela Arnoldt


English gang --

My Memories of and Memorial to Pat Haas--

Pat is one of those unforgettable characters we used to read about in Reader’s Digest. It took a person about two minutes after meeting Pat to know he was going to be a good friend. Those who didn’t figure it out by then probably don't have any good friends.

Pat is unforgettable because he never met a stranger; no matter who you were or where you were or what you looked like or what age you were, Pat just naturally liked you and would talk with you as long as you wanted or as long as he could.

Pat is unforgettable because, like Will Rogers, he never met a man (or woman) he didn’t like. And he surely met some people that forgettable folks would not like very well at all. I think he never learned how to hate; it wasn't possible for him. Harley riders or bicycle riders, his love for people never changed.

Pat is unforgettable because he never got angry, even though life in recent years gave him plenty to be angry about. Sometimes others expressed anger for him, but Pat always remained even, measured and without anger. After Pat had to leave teaching, Ruth's husband John and I met monthly --when Pat or we could -- for lunch at the Haas house. Those lunches were marked by what some, I suppose, would accurately call man talk. We talked about sports. He's from Michigan, and I'm from Ohio; he was Navy, I was Air Force. So, there was no problem finding different points of view to express. We talked about politics and solved problems worldwide, nationally, in Arizona, as well as GCC, of course. Sometimes John and I would agree; sometimes we would find ourselves on different sides of an issue. Pat always found a way to agree with both of us -- all the time.

Pat is unforgettable because he was forever pulling little tricks on his GCC friends, mostly his English Dept. colleagues. But he wasn't very good at it. He'd often stop short of getting the "victim's" goat because he didn't really want to embarrass anyone, in any way. That was just Pat.

But Pat is unforgettable mostly because of his courage as he battled cancer for years. As we all know, he would struggle to make progress, getting up the mountain, only to slip down on a slippery slope that seemed to always find his path. But, each time he began the climb again and struggled to regain that lost ground. Forgettable people see the slippery slope on the hillside and don't even get started.

Pat's struggle is over, but he remains unforgettable.

Larry Bohlender
English/Journalism Instructor
Glendale Community College (Ariz.)


Did you ever notice how Pat naturally turned the conversation so that the focus was on you, or me, or someone else?  Of course, at times he would speak about himself.  We all do.  Seemingly, though, Pat would have rather that you or I be the center of attention and not himself.  Maybe it was his good manners, or his modesty, or maybe it was just the way he was raised?  I don't know.  But whatever it was, Pat had that quality in abundance.  To be sure, he was the kind of man who genuinely was concerned more about your feelings or about mine.  He had a way of putting the other person first.

It was no different even in his sickness.  The malady that wracked his body left his spirit untouched.  Indeed, he and I frequently spoke about matters that really matter, about his own health and about the struggle that was now his lot in life.  And talk as we might, the outcome was always predictable, somehow always the same.  I have thought long thoughts about it all, but I cannot think of a single  time that Pat did not manage somehow to talk to me about me.   Sometimes his words were about a boat I am building.  Sometimes about other unimportant and banal things. I still don't know how he did it; I really don't.  I do know, however,  that deference to the other person was what he did, what he did best.  I admired that in him.   When we first spoke, I saw that quality  in him.  When we last spoke, I saw that same nobleness of soul.

Even his humor and bantering had the same kind of tenderness.  He loved to laugh, and his laughter won our hearts. We will miss you, Pat.  Thank you for being here, and thank you for being you.

James Sanders

We've Lost a Good Friend
By Don Morris

Pat was a Charter member of the Metro Motorsports Sunday Cruisers and its first Secretary.  He published the newsletter for many years and attended most of the rides.  I got to know Pat more after he stopped riding, and visited with him from time to time. Our commonality was that we were both Vietnam Vets and he always wanted to see the pictures, watch the DVD and hear the stories about "Run For The Wall."  He told me that one of the reasons he kept fighting was to make that ride in 2007.  He will be on that ride in our hearts.        from the Metro Motorsports' Casual Good Times!  Sunday Cruisers newsletter.


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